"Sweet Burdens"

Every one of us possesses sweet burdens for my money.Believe it or not?

When we began breathing the fresh air for the first time,naturally a sweet burden fell upon our parents.We were involved in their life,and from that time on,"the heart only for you" has become "for you and our child".My roommate Becky once quoted that girls were the lovers of their fathers' in the previous life,while boys their mothers' .An atheist as I am,this sentence does indicate our relationships with our parents.

Growing to our adolescence,our ideal girl or boy and those who regard us ideal ones are sweet burdens that seems like special "pills" with bitter coat but sweet core.Happiness,desperation and embarrassment are all gathered there.

Ages slipping by,our children are born;parents become old.Decades later,we turn our children's sweet burdens.

Here comes to a loop in which our status alters.If skipping any of these periods,we are likely to be seen as incomplete and abnormal.

I will go through all of them in time.Please allow me to stay longer as a sweet burden.-Snow of XUAR